When the intimate moments in your life are challenging, painful, difficult or uncomfortable, they can infect every other moment of your life. It can feel frightening, overwhelming, or just downright frustrating trying to face sexual and relationship challenges. Are you considering divorce or separation? I can help you to make the right choice for you, without bias or judgment.
Whether feeling stuck depressed, anxious,ashamed, or angry, the hurdles we face in our own life can end up preventing us from being our truest self, but they can also prevent us from being our happiest self.
The good news is - you are not alone. And you weren’t meant to deal with these challenges alone. There is a way for each of us to rediscover happiness, desire, connection, and sexual fulfillment. A way for each of us to step out of the pain, the trauma, the compulsion or the fear that’s been holding us back, and to move into a life of sexual and relationship joy.
For a decade, I’ve been working as a Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Clinical Sexologist, counseling individuals and couples to help them to have more meaningful relationships. I have also counseled couples to help them decide to break up or divorce. Divorce happens. There shouldn’t be shame or stigma around it, but we can end a relationship thoughtfully. Sex and relationship help for couples and individuals, living any lifestyle, is my passion. Talking with me feels like talking to a good friend who cares deeply who also happens to be a sex and relationship therapist.
My work as therapist and coach is deeply personal and professional; I am living or have lived through what many of my clients are experiencing.
I consider myself to be beyond lucky to have studied with the best therapists in the world. I have been trained by Esther Perel, author of Mating in Captivity and The State of Affairs. She continues to give me guidance in my couples work. My clients are in good hands as they are overseen by the most esteemed couple’s therapist.
I have also been trained by the wonderful, Terry Real. He has shown me that egalitarianism in romantic relationships is of upmost importance for couples with power struggles (which show up in most of our relationships). Finally, I was trained and certified in Clinical Sexology by Dr. Patti Britton in Los Angeles, California, where I learned from the leading Sexologists and Sex Therapists in the field.
I am LGBTQIAP+ Positive. I welcome clients of all genders, sexual orientations, kink and BDSM, and designer relationships.
How Sex + Relationship Coaching Can Help You
I offer my services by phone, video conferencing, and in person. You can be anywhere in the world and still be able to get sex coaching (counseling) and the help you need to be the best version of yourself. You'll find that talking to me is a liberating experience. I have no need to judge or assess you, my only agenda is to enable you to transform and grow.
COMMON Concerns include:
Power struggles• disconnection. loss of love. lack of passion. fighting. lack of trust. considering Divorce. Low or no sexual desire • Uneven desire in a relationship • Preorgasmic (unable to reach orgasm) • Dysparunia (painful sex) • Vaginismus • Sexual Inhibitions • Body Dysphoria • Social/dating skills deficit • Desire for enhanced pleasure • Sexless relationship • Conflicts about desire • Conflicting values about monogamy/affairs • Performing skills • deficit Body image concerns • Communication style conflicts • Negotiation skills deficit • Early Ejaculation • Delayed Ejaculation • Erectile Dysfunction• BDSM/Kink Interests Polyamory Ethical non monogamy
Infidelity and most relationship concerns